Online couples therapy for successful professionals who want real, lasting change in their relationship.
Evidence-based therapy that quickly helps you reduce conflict, reconnect emotionally, and actually enjoy each other again.
"A successful relationship requires falling in love many times, always with the same person."
Mignon McLaughlin
About Me
I work with high-achieving couples who love each other but feel stuck in recurring arguments, emotional shutdown, or disconnection. Many of the couples I see are accomplished professionals who excel at work but struggle to make their relationship work.
I help couples get to solutions quickly, reduce conflict, rebuild connection, and bring more warmth, trust, and fun back into their relationship - without endless talking or feeling overwhelmed.
I’ve been featured on ITV’s “My Mum, Your Dad” as a relationship expert and have written a book on how to get the best out of therapy. You can visit my full site here.
Trusted by couples across the UK
★★★★★
Graham got us focusing immediately on practical ways we could reconnect - the ways we treated each other, the ways we talked to each other. We've never felt closer.
Kat & David
I really didn't want to couples therapy: I worried it'd just be talking about feelings. But I learned better ways to be there for my wife, and more helpful ways to get what I want, too.
Felix
What you’ll get from couples therapy
Calm, constructive communication & a sense of being on the same team again.
Rebuild closeness and intimacy.
A relationship where both partners feel valued and respected.
Restore trust and emotional security.
Solve conflict quickly and rebuild warmth.
Simple steps that reduce arguments but enable you to get what you want.
Common challenges I help with
Feeling like you're sharing your house with a friend - not a partner
I help you work out how to re-ignite the flames.
Disagreements that escalate into arguments or silence
I help you identify quickly why you're stuck, and give you practical skills to calm the fire, and still be heard.
Stressful lives crowding out the relationship
I help you work out how to balance your busy lives with ways to re-connect with what you love about each other.
GOT QUESTIONS?
I've got answers
Not as many as you'd think. I don't spend an awful lot of time helping you understand why you're behaving how you are - it's helpful, but what's going to help you is getting you working on new ways of treating and talking with each other from session one. Most of the couples I see spend about ten to twenty sessions with me, often fewer.
£120 for a fifty minute online session via Zoom.
No. I work with couples whose work takes them all over the country and globe. We can have online sessions via Zoom from wherever you are.
Yes of course. You can record the sessions if you would find that helpful, but I won't do that. Similarly, there are very, very few legal situations where a therapist has to give session notes to a court - mainly involving terrorism. So you can rest assured our sessions are confidential.
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